Girls meet Gentlemen - why?
GMG - a trend becomes established
In the last few years more and more celebrity-gentlemen ally with remarkable young ladies.
Exemplified by the following couples:
Brad Pit (40) and Angelina Jolie (29)
Tom Cuise (44) and Katie Holmes (27)
Paul William Scott Anderson (40) and Milla Jovovich (29)
Rod Stewart (58) and Penny Lancaster (31)
Flavio Briatore (56) and Elisabetta Gregoraci (26)
Woody Allen (64) and Soon-Yi Previn (29)
They all share the following facts: HE is older than 40 years and SHE is not younger than 30 years.
What builts the basis?
The psychologist Dr.phil., Dipl.-Psych. A. Meinhauser answers this question as follows: The psychologist tries to analyse what kind of attributes attract the younger or the elder partner when they get to know each other. A young lady is looking for reliability and the feeling of security. The elder gentlemen on the other hand is attracted by the youth, vitality and beauty of a young lady."
What kind of opportunities harbors this kind of relationship? Like in every relationship differences should not be something to fight against, but rather built a oppotunity of just being. The sexual-attitude of each partner is additionaly a main-issue in every relationship. The Institute for Sexual Research in Hamburg, Germany compared four different age-cohorts (men and women) regarding their sexual-attitudes in 13 different catagories. The results ahowed evidence for the age-independendness of the sexual-attitudes. This report therefore shows, that there is no negative influence on the sexual harmony by age differences in a relationship. Sexual-attitudes are developed in early developmental-stages and barely change all the life. It is obsevable, that young ladies rather prefer a older, thus sexual-experienced partner.
In further studies of the HMAG-Institute regarding the desired marital age the following statistics of those women who prefer a partner 10 or more years older where published:
- Women younger than 26 years: 49%
- Women younger than 35 years: 32%
- Women older than 35 years: 18%
Result: Almost 50% of women younger than 26 years favor an elder partner to marry, this is remarkably dereased within the group of women older than 35 years.
The phenomenon Elder gentleman young lady is not entirely new, even though a trend can be postulated. Johann Wolfgang v. Goethe proposed, in the age of 74, to the 19 years old Ulrike von Levetzow and Julius Caesar was in the age of 45 when he fell in love with the 20 year old egyptian queen Cleopatra.
Still age-diffences in relationships are charged with overused clichés as: He is looking for a Lolita and wants to forget about his midlife-crisis, she is moneygrubbing and suffers from a paternal Oedipus-complex. It is easy to get an impression of advantages of a younger partner, wheras the motives for an elder partner are not that lucid. The mayoritys expication lies in the putative material advantages. Interviews with couples with age-differences within the normal population were disillusioning:
A younger woman is looking for the feeling of security, an experienced and mental-balanced partner. Elder gentlemen are in comparison to younger gentlemen more empathic, more tolerant and even-tempered. Often they are patient and interested fathers .
The elder gentleman is looking for a spontanous and natural woman, who helps him out of his routine. Experience and impulsivity often complement one another. A further motive lies in the desire of starting, again, a family with children. The, in the media, first named motive the beauty and erotic of a young womans body, plays at the very beginning of a relationship a crucial role. After months of familarisation this motive falls behind the others.
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